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15 Nov 2007 

Is it love???

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    How will you answer the question, “Is it love?”… For me, the mere fact that if a person is inlove and was loved in return is one good example of LOVE.. But how does it show on us? I can say a feeling is love when you are willing to give without asking in return.
    It’s love when a person hurts you so bad but then, at one moment in time you still accept him and you try to forget his past failures.
    It’s love when a person forgot to greet you on special occasions and events, you get annoyed but then, at one moment in time when he beg “sorry”, you forgive.
    It’s love when he had said negative words to you, but then, at one moment in time you still understand.
    It’s love when all of your relatives and friends hate him, but then, at one moment in time you still see the positive side of him and accept him and fight for him with your relatives trying to figure out why do you have to love him…
    It’s love when you know that he’s not perfect and can never give all the things you wished for..but then, at one moment in time all you wished is his perfect and loyal love than material things.
    It’s love when you had a fight, but then at one moment of time, you beg sorry and accept the faults you never did.
   It’s love when he seldom says “I Love You”, but then, at one moment of time when he said it, it lasts forever with you.
    It’s love when you ignore practicality, biggest opportunities are there but then, at one moment of time you refused. You don’t wanna be away from him. You just want to stay close with him.
    It’s love when a very simple gift from him has been very precious to you..
~saab radiator~
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15 Nov 2007 

Does a woman tears affects her man?

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http://www.tristancafe.com/music/flash/lovecantlie.html

how could you go?
how could you say goodbye?
it hurts inside cause by now
still can't find the reason why love can't lie
still can't find the reason why 
it's hard to try with cryin' all the time
~saab pressure plate~
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15 Nov 2007 

The Essence of Beauty




Beauty is attractive, pleasing. We all enjoy beauty. It is a pleasure, a delight and behold beautiful things. You can also be beautiful, graceful to yourself and others. How can one become beautiful is making ourself beautiful inside which slowly reveals the outside.

The first thing people noticed 'bout a person is his or her face. Few of us are blessed with perfect features, but a cheerful smile, anxious eyes and unworried forehead can make our features agreeable. And not to their instincts of passions.

We can say that we are not fully dressed until you wear a smile. Appearing neatly does not mean one has to be worried 'bout one's dress all the time. One of the good appearance basis is good health. So that you get sufficient food, exercise, fresh air and good sleep everyday.

Beauty is not only in sight, but also in sound. So your voice counts a hours, a high-pitched voice annoys people. It is not enough that we say the right thing, we should also say it in the right way. We should cultivate a pleasing voice, and learn to modulate it appropriately so that the word may not go wrong.

Our essential beauty shows forth in our thoughts, words and deeds. Every word we speak must reflect inner beauty of our heart, mind and soul. The longer we live, the more beautiful our lives should become, for the earth's beauty grows on men.


"If you foolishly ignore beauty, you will soon find yourself without it. Your life will be improverished. But if you wisely invest in beauty, it will remain with you, all the days of your life."




~saab power steering pump~
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15 Nov 2007 

What to do when broke-hearted





1. Treat yourself gently.
You can feel so 'knocked' after your heart is broken that you feel seriously ill, or as if you've been in a car crash. So, treat yourself as if you are recovering from a bad illness or a road traffic accident. Let other people care for you, too. Get as much sleep as possible. Eat lovely foods. Convalesce. And allow yourself to cry - even if you're a bloke. It's horrible at the time, but you'll feel better afterwards.  All in all, take life gently - you've had a shock, and your mind and body need time to get over it.

2. Pep up your social life
Your friends will help you get over it. Soon, they'll be asking you to come out in a group to the cinema or the pub or whatever. At first you won't be in the mood, but soon you'll realize that there are some bonuses to being single again. In fact, you'll find that this is a good time to do stuff that you didn't do with your ex. So now you can go to the sorts of films that you like, or you can listen to your type of music, or go on your type of holiday.

3. Look back to look forward
Once you're over the stage of feeling shocked and ill, try to look back at your relationship as it really was, not through the rose-tinted spectacles you've worn for so long.

Write a list of the things that you don't miss about your ex. At first you'll be thinking that you loved everything about this person, but you didn't.  What about those awful jokes, the rows, how you always had to make the arrangements if anything was to get done, the times when your ex put you down or made you feel stupid or how they didn't like your best mate? There are always elements to our past loves that weren't right, and this is a good time to focus on them.

4. Starting again  
Sometimes when our hearts are broken we want to find someone new to love us as soon as possible. This is natural - but unwise. Your best bet is to embrace your single life wholeheartedly for six months or so. Obviously you may end up having sex with other people - but do make sure it's safe sex. However, your emotions are not going to settle for quite a while like saab oxygen sensor, so have fun, but don't go looking for anything else serious until you're happy without your ex. You'll know you're getting over your heartache when you can get through a whole day without thinking about them.

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15 Nov 2007 

How to reduce stress?
Change of any kind can induce stress because of:

  • fear of the new, the unknown

  • feelings of personal insecurity

  • feelings of vulnerability

  • fear of rejection

  • need for approval

  • lack of tolerance for ambiguity

  • fear of conflict

  • fear of taking a risk

  • fear of developing trust

  • fear of inability to cope with changed circumstances

  • low self-esteem

  • feelings of over-responsibility

  • fear of loss of control

  • fear of failure, error, mistakes

  • fear of being judged

  • lack of belief in ``being good enough''

  • chronic striving to be ``perfect''

  • chronic guilt

  • unresolved grief over a loss or a series of losses

  • chronic anger, hostility, or depression 

    Not all stress is distress:     a certain amount of stress or pressure is necessary and shows a positive adaptation being made by a person. This is called eustress. Bad or negative stress is called distress: the negative physiological and emotional response when stress is intense and unresolved.

http://management.about.com/od/yourself/ht/ReduceStress05.htm
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